Over the course of a sophomore year, everything can change.  This is the experience of Lima.  Attending a private school where students call their instructors by first names, Lima’s life has always been simple.  She was the only child.  She had the best of best friends since grade in grade school in Hailey.  She didn’t get herself caught up in the drama around boys.  And she did well in her classes.  But the realities of high school life begin to creep into her world starting with Hailey’s 1st sexual encounter.  Hailey’s lack of desire to discuss it with Lima began the mixed messages she would receive, send and feel throughout the year.  Lima watches Hailey start to hang with a crowd who parties and pull even further away because of a new girl friend, Skyler.  Hailey toys with Lima’s emotions, coming back into her life over the course of the year whenever things get too out of control with her new scene.  Lima’s frustration bends to confusion when Hailey’s long time crush, Nate, shows interest in Lima instead.  But this is so much more than a battle for the boy book.  Lima meets an edgier group of students in seniors Meredith, Walker, Henry and Lily who will allow her to test out who she is and establish who she is not.  And slowly, the path to Nate will open with all of the physical and emotional connections going full boar.  Juliana Romano takes an honest look at a year in the life of Lima as she truly comes of age.  Lima even says “We had all played our parts in the things that happened over the course of the year.  No one person was to blame.  Maybe growing up was about being able to live with the fact that things weren’t ever totally black or white.”  Romano handles the most personal of choices with raw emotion and delicacy, just as it probably is for most teen girls who are deciding how to keep friendships alive and whether to have sex.  First There Was Forever is definitely for high school libraries, but can be a justifiable addition to a collection as Lima stays true to herself throughout the book.